Wednesday, September 16, 2020

On the Chris Evans Controversy (and my Sexting Experiences)

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Hey there, pornies. I hope you are allright and safe. There has been such a hype these days for a dick pic Chris Evans accidentally shared on his social media, and I've read some... surprising comments about this. This is a great reminder of the dangers of sexting, a topic I had to learn about the harsh way.

I read somewhere on Twitter that a person wanted to know about the story behind the picture. The story wouldn't be too different from mine: Horny person takes a NSFW picture and shares it with another person they wanted to fuck at the moment. The difference, however, was that Chris shared it for accident, and my then-boyfriend sent mine to my mother.

There's not too much I can say about this. It's pretty simple: I was in love with this guy, who took me to heaven and hell in six months, and sent him pictures with my dick and my face. One morning, my mom cam and said she thought I was better than that. I called him right away after she left, and he not-surprisingly denied it all, but months later, when I was done with him, I found out he had messaged my mom. I never read the messages, but I don't need the details.

Anyone can sext, we know that, but I guess we often forget about the dangers involved. I used to think I could be a porn actor, and then I had to speak with my mother about these pictures. Most. Uncomfortable. Horror-Level- Conversation. Ever. I don't need to repeat the experience, and I'm sure as hell Chris won't after the whole world saw his privates.

A friend told me his pics are all over the internet because he sends them to everyone and anyone, and he's okay with that. Ask yourself that same question before sending. If this leaks, if this one picture goes viral, would you be okay? Obviously, this won't ruin a marvelous (pun intended, hehe) acting carreer, doesn't mean this man is a slut, an easy person, or anything. It just means he made a mistake, but people can judge pretty harshly no matter what.

I had a thing with a friend, something between friendship and relationship, and one day he told me he had recorded his screen when I was jerking off to him by cam. That was years before the event with this boyfriend, and I was terrified because of it. I know he erased the video because we had something special, even after this boyfriend I'm talking about. However, after he decided to stop talking to me I felt so exposed, so used, just like before, like when I sent pictures to this boyfriend and said he didn't want them then.

Finally, there's a thing that is bothering me a lot: people saying "that's it? Is that all? Is this what the hype is all about?" Well, I'm surprised anyone would expect otherwise. Chris Evans is not a porn actor. He's just another man doing what he likes and is good at. If you want a "good" photo, I humbly suggest you go see who I follow on Twitter. There are some great photos and videos in the porn profiles I follow.

Again, think before you send that picture. There is always the risk of it going online, and although I may not end your life (mine and Chris' are still intact) it will make you live a really unconfortable situation. You can do with your life whatever it is you like, but sexting is over for me after a recording I didn't know about, photos sent to my mother, and a guy telling me "I just let you do it because I know you feel good doing it..." For Chris, one viral pic would be enough, I'm sure.

Kinky regards, K!

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