Tuesday, July 28, 2020

Book review: Spell of the Werewolf

Hello, you. ^^ How are you feeling today? I recently began working with a purple beauty, a flower I recently shared in my Instagram. So far, I think it can be a Morning Glory, since the flowers are pretty similar, but the whole of the plat is really different. I’ll keep digging the internet and see what I can find. Meanwhile, what about books? Today I come to tell you about Spell of the Werewolf, by J. R. Loveless. Thanks to Gay Book Promotions for sending me a copy!


  • Print Legth: 118 pages
  • Publisher: Self Published (June 21, 2020)
  • Publishing Date: June 21, 2020
  • ISBN-13: 979-8654256959
  • ASIN: B08BR32XGS
  • Rating: 3.5/5 stars
A werewolf with a death wish bargains with a hunter for salvation. Justin has spent several lifetimes atoning for the violent nature of his curse. A mindless angry beast several nights a month, he carries a burden of blood for past sins. Tired and lonely, he’s seeking an end to his torment.
Vincent bears the curse, though only by half. A hybrid, he hunts those of his brethren who let their monsters take over. And he’s hell bent on destroying them all, until he's forced to deal with one who’s begging for peace. Except deliverance wears many guises.
Their desire for redemption erupts in a fiery passion drawing them closer together.
Trigger Warning: Suicidal thoughts and implications.

The story is pretty simple and straightforward, and the book is short as well, so it was easy to get started with it and sympathize with the characters. There is nothing too complex, to strange or deep in this novel. I’m mostly a vampire guy, but there something about wolves that also make them really appealing.

I liked how the story showed Justin and Vincent, and although Justin sometimes became the typical self-loathing cliché-kind-of-character, he has enough material to stand on its own. The same goes for Vincent, because I thought at first he would be just a cold-blooded hunter who wouldn’t develop that much due to my first impression. Boy, I was wrong!

Their story is pretty much sweet and with a little bit of drama, I liked how they interacted with each other, got to know the other and see their dynamics change. J. R. Loveless made this an enjoyable time! However, I felt the romance part was a bit too rushed for my taste. It could have been okay if they started having no-strings sex, but things got too personal too quickly. Same goes for the world-building, because… I can’t believe no one heard that much sword-fighting; and I’d rather stay silent about the ending…

Spell of the Werewolf has sexy protagonist and many good ideas that could easily turn into a series. There’s potential for a longer story and I think the author has a great writing style, since I was surprised several times as I read. If you want a quick love story about wolves, trauma and a nice dose of sex, this novel is for you.

About J. R. Loveless:
J.R. Loveless began her adventure in writing romance at the young age of twelve. Her foray into creating her own worlds and telling her characters’ life stories was triggered by her own love of reading. She currently resides in South Florida with her dog and two cats, volunteers for an animal rescue in her spare time, and works as a manager for a financial lending institute. Someday she hopes to begin writing as a full-time career and bringing more of her ideas to life.
Her journey into gay romance began in 2005 when she began posting her original fiction on a forum for feedback and readers’ pleasure. In 2010, a good friend urged her to submit to a publishing company, and the day she received the acceptance and contract was the best day of her life. Since then, she has been noted to be one of the most purchased audio books after Fifty Shades of Grey on Audiobook.com, received best gay romantic fiction for Touch Me Gently in the 2011 TLA Gaybies, and even received an award for Chasing Seth in 2012.
J.R. adores her fans and loves hearing from them.

Have you read this book? Would you recommend it or not? Let me know in the comments! Kinky regards, K!

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Sunday, July 26, 2020

Queer Pagan Interviews: Daniel Kingston

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Hi there! How is your weekend going pornies? I hope fun. ^^ I jut had the pleasure of having an interview with a friend of mine, someone I connected with thanks to the internet and that I've talked to for a while. He's someone I'm constantly learning from and that never stops surprising me with his knowledge on cartomancy and divination. Seriously, this guy is awesome! May I present you with Daniel Kingstom, a.k.a. The Knave of Swords.


1. Which came first: Witchcraft or Queer Identity?

I’d have to say, Witchcraft. The questions of sexuality, its acceptance and recognition hadn’t risen until I got into my early adolescence - and that was well, well after I’d gotten into Witchcraft and cartomancy in particular (my mother likes telling the, almost apocryphal, story of how I conjured up a rainstorm, when I was two or three - but, damn, do I not remember that). To expand on that, I’ve been surrounded by Witchcraft and cartomancy for as long as I can remember myself. There were stories of witches, there were cinematic witches (I’ve always been a voracious cinefile), there were family traditions, of course - most of them concerning fortune-telling, and I’ve been brewing amongst them ever since I can remember myself. It wouldn’t be surprising, I guess, to mention that I got my first Tarot deck at the age of three (quite an early age, but, well, I was unstoppable in my desire of having it - and I successfully wheedled it out of my father’s colleague, a witchcraft-loving lady, who had the only American Tarot deck, a miniature yellow box Rider-Waite, in the city we were living in). I couldn’t read it, naturally, but I was fascinated by the imagery, so by the age of seventeen, when I actually started reading the Tarot (and had already been reading playing cards for some time), I knew the visual, iconographic side of the deck quite well.

So, yes, Witchcraft came first.

2. How would you describe your path as a Witch?
The question of path has always eluded and dumbfounded me, frankly speaking - and here I’ll have to take a wild theoretical detour. The notion of a “path” brings to my mind a very strict adherence to a certain spiritual or religious paradigm or doctrine. Witchcraft, as far as I understand it, based on certain historical sources, is the ability to command, compel, or alter the environment to your will in order to get your desired effect. As such, witchcraft is naturally a mercantile (for lack of a better word) procedure. Mercantilism of such witchcraft, with its “over-goal” (to paraphrase Stanislavsky) of bringing you what you desire, discerns it from a spiritual or religious doctrine - as ultimately one of any doctrine’s standout characteristics is the acceptance of a certain worldview, accompanied by adhering to a defined code of rules, and not an attainment of some physical result, desired at the moment. To sum up, I’d say that I consider my witchcraft to be a “craft” first and foremost - so you might call me a “mercantile witch”, who does what he wants. 



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Have you ever wondered about the history of some spreads that we take for granted these days? Spreads, just like anything (even kittens), don’t appear out of the blue – they always have an origin, some “Ur-spread” that they grew out of, sometimes shedding steps and cards, sometimes sponging up more of them. Case in point – something as basic, as widespread as the Mind, Body, Spirit triplet that a lot of readers learn during their early cartomantic studies. Would you believe that 300 years ago it wasn’t a basic, omnipresent triplet, but a full 54 cards spread? Papus, in his Le Tarot des Bohémiens, recreates the Etteilla method of Tarot divination (the grandiose four-step process, utilizing the full deck) – and how surprised a modern reader would be to find out that the first step of all this gargantuan procedure is a blown-up Mind, Body, Spirit Spread! Such fascinating historical tidbits are widespread in Cartomancy – the moment you dig deeper into its history, a lot of modern trends start appearing in a completely different light. #fortunetelling #fortunetellingcards #tarot #thetarot #tarotcards #tarotcardsreading #divination #cardreadersofinstagram #cartomancersofinstagram #fortunetellersofinstagram #tarotreadersofinstagram #cartomancy #cartomancie #cartomancie #wahrsagen #kartenlegen #tiragedecartes #voyance #jeudivinatoire #tiragedivinatoire #witchessociety #tdm #tarotdemarseille #grimaud #papus #etteilla
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3. Do you feel your sexuality has played a role in your Craft?
Yes and no, really. I wouldn’t say that it’s played a big, unequivocal part in it, but there comes a time now and then, when a certain desire or a certain goal is connected to sexuality or sexual identity. That doesn’t happen too often, but I can’t say that it’s not happened entirely. However, overall, I can’t say that sexuality has been my “guiding star” or compass in questions of either witchcraft or cartomancy. Yes, there were periods and questions that were directly influenced by it (for example, trying to find out, which cartomantic systems work best for same-sex readings, or which ones could be used in the context of bisexuality), but those are individual questions and not the general trends.

4. You focus a lot of your work in cartomancy, it seems. What is it that you like so much about cards?
First and foremost, cartomancy has been a family tradition for two generations at least. My late Grandmother read playing cards (to quote the proverb) like the Devil, and most of the times her friends would visit her, she’d get a deck out and read the cards for them. She also read coffee grounds (a very popular fortune-telling method in the Balkans). There was a true feeling of watching a master at work - Grandma made it look very simple, with lots of flamboyant, artistic flourishes and touches, and that combination of comfortable domesticity (every reading was done in her kitchen over a cup of coffee with mandatory, almost cinematic, puffing on a cigarette) and theatricality also appealed to me. 
Then again, there’s the question of a rich, deep history of cartomancy, its cultural, societal importance - and that importance, I believe, is integral in understanding cultures of certain countries. I read a very interesting idea somewhere that cartomancy could be considered a mirror, in which the societal, cultural, and psychological notions of a given country are reflected. That is to say, cartomancy reflects the quotidian, the domesticity, the everyday world of its country of origin. For example, you can compare the French, the German, the Russian, the Spanish card meanings - and you’ll get four entirely different panoramas of what worried people, why they’d go to a fortune-teller, what sort of things could have ordinarily happened in their lives. As such, cartomancy is basically the “Ur-culturology”, providing an unprecedented glance into the world of a given country’s psychosocial underbelly.




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After taking a little break from Instagram (a boy needs some alone time once in a while), fighting with my iMac, learning how to install Windows as the second OS, here I am again, fresh and energetic again (thank waking up every day at 4 pm for that). Making posts every day (even with the card collection the size of mine) can be daunting at times, and the fickle muse is prone to taking extended holidays. Thus, to reinvigorate my desire to post, I decided to sometimes mix into the usual cartomantic mélange not only the (already familiar) pictures of my visage, but also some book posts and other things that bring enjoyment to my lasting self-isolation. Stay tuned. For danger. #fortunetelling #oracle #oraclecardsdeck #oraclereading #oraclecards #divination #fortunetellingcards #cardreadersofinstagram #fortunetellersofinstagram #cartomancersofinstagram #cartomancy #cartomancie #cartomancia #cartomanzia #kartenlegen #wahrsagen #voyance #jeudivinatoire #tiragedecartes #tiragedivinatoire #witchessociety #grimaud #lepetitcartomancien #jeudebonneaventure
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5. Which would you say is the most relevant difference when using one deck or the other? Is just a matter of which you use for a certain purpose or is there a feeling that makes them different?
I think purpose and question play the most important role here - and I’m not talking about particular decks only, but also about the whole systems. As you know, cartomancy isn’t just the Tarot, despite its popularity and virtual omnipresence - there are playing cards, there also are various fortune-telling decks like Lenormand, Zigeunerwahrsagekarten (or Sudbinske Karte as they call them in Serbia), Kipper, etc. All of these have their own methodological or interpretational systems - mostly country-specific. I mean, even the Tarot is read differently in the USA or in France! So, the question of choosing a deck or a system, for me personally, depends greatly on what sort of question is posed to me. For example, if I have to answer some specific question with clear advantages and disadvantages to consider, I’m more likely to get Tarot de Marseille out of my card cabinet. If it’s a general prediction with a certain timeframe, I’ll probably throw a quick Sudbinske Karte Tableau. The question is the key here - certain systems excel in some questions, others work wonders with other queries. That, of course, demands a certain level of trial and error - but I think, with due diligence and analysis performed while studying a particular system, one can effectively pinpoint what question a system would be more suitable for.

6. Is there one certain deck you would recommend for those interested in practicing cartomancy?
No, I don’t really think there’s one “go-to” deck in the world. With the whole array and variety of systems I’ve mentioned before, a reader can easily find a system that would suit them - but I don’t think they should listen to people who would try to impose what works best for them. How should they know that that deck or that system would work for that particular person? For example, I absolutely love Maritxu Guler’s venerable El Gran Tarot Esoterico - but how should I know that a person, asking for my advice in choosing a deck, would “click” with it? Maybe they’ll be intimidated by the fact that El Gran Tarot Esoterico is entirely different from most of the mass-produced, popular decks? Maybe they don’t read Spanish and won’t be able to read Guler’s exquisite companion book, with its fascinating adaptation of Eudes Picard’s rare interpretational system? Or, again, Sudbinske Karte - yes, it’s a system that’s extremely popular in the Balkans, where my family is from, so I personally have a nostalgic connection to it and use it fairly often. But can I recommend it to others, despite my unconditional love for it? So, ultimately, I think it boils down to going through various systems and checking, which one “clicks” with you, your goals, your needs - as well as your sense of aesthetics. If there’s one thing my Grandma taught me, it’s that a deck (or a system) has to be not just a utilitarian tool, but it has to please you aesthetically, too. 



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As our February collaboration with @avrsun was reaching its finale, a couple of photos of me and cards were made. Being photographed with cards isn’t something I often do – even though I photograph my cards every evening! Why so? Perhaps because I still have zero idea what my “fortune-teller costume” should look like. At home, of course, you can find me reading cards shirtless and in pajama pants – but publicly? For a photoshoot? Should I wear a suit or continue wearing my casual/athletic style of warmer seasons? So many choices – and zero concrete decisions! However, despite my ongoing search for that perfect image, you can still savour our cartomantic photos! #cardreadersofinstagram #cartomancersofinstagram #tarotreadersofinstagram #fortunetellersofinstagram #witchesofinstagram
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7. Do you use other divination method besides cards?
Well, cards, of course, occupy the main place in the repertoire of my divinatory methods - but, yes, I do use certain other things. Coffee grounds readings (or tasseomancy) may be the second most common method I rely on, as it’s very popular in the Balkans and, of course, also has a familial history for me due to Grandma’s practice of it (all the roads lead to my Grandma, it appears). I tried to dabble in palmistry for some time, but my knowledge of it is pretty cursory, so I can’t say that I use it very often. I must admit, though, that I’ve had some very surprising results with it, so, who knows - I might return to actual systematic study of palmistry sometime in the future, as it truly is a fascinating and time-honoured divinatory tradition!

8. Looking back in time, let's say, five years ago, which is your most significant change?
I guess, graduating from the University (surprisingly, for a guy who spent most of his high school circulating between soccer practices and theatre rehearsals, cum laude) and getting a job that I enjoy a lot - that allows me not just creative freedom in it, but also the ability to pursue my interests and hobbies, without impeding in their way.



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As our February collaboration with @avrsun was reaching its finale, a couple of photos of me and cards were made. Being photographed with cards isn’t something I often do – even though I photograph my cards every evening! Why so? Perhaps because I still have zero idea what my “fortune-teller costume” should look like. At home, of course, you can find me reading cards shirtless and in pajama pants – but publicly? For a photoshoot? Should I wear a suit or continue wearing my casual/athletic style of warmer seasons? So many choices – and zero concrete decisions! However, despite my ongoing search for that perfect image, you can still savour our cartomantic photos! #cardreadersofinstagram #cartomancersofinstagram #tarotreadersofinstagram #fortunetellersofinstagram #witchesofinstagram
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9. What are your plans for the future?
With everything happening these days, it’s rather difficult to make concrete plans for the future. I’ll have to be pretty general then - continue enjoying life, learning new things, not dropping out of sports, and, most importantly, curbing my laziness (at least in some microscopic, miniscule way - a guy can dream).

10. Which would be your advice for young, future Witches and Pagans?
Study. Study, study, and study again. Don’t fall for a promise of a “quick and dirty” witchcraft or divination - it’s never quick, it’s never easy, it always takes years and years of careful, methodical, systematic study of various sources (some of them in different languages, my regards to cartomancy!), and those sources usually differ greatly from the dummied down books one can find in your local B&N. Be prepared that sometimes spells don’t work, cards are wrong, various sources contradict each other (and you have to choose sides in theoretical or methodological arguments), and people may not agree with your ideas - and more often than not, those come from your own community, gatekeeping or telling you that you’re wrong a priori for having a different opinion. If you’re not afraid of any of the things above - my sincerest congratulations, you’re on the right way and ready to embark on a journey of a lifetime. Bon voyage!

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Saturday, July 25, 2020

Book review: Walking in Beauty

Hey there! How are you today, pornies? I just finished reading an amazing book that helped me come into terms with many of my demons, insecurities and fears. A book about something we often forget to focus on and to give importance to. Today I’m talking about Walking in Beauty: Using the Magick of the Pentacle to Bring Harmony to Your Life, by Phoenix LeFae. Thanks to the publisher for sending me an ARC of this book!


  • Print Length: 280 pages
  • Publisher: Llewellyn Publications (August 8, 2020)
  • Publication Date: August 8, 2020
  • ISBN-10: 0738762555
  • ISBN-13: 978-0738762555
  • Rating: 4/5 stars
A Must-Have Guide to Embracing the Magnificence in Yourself and the World.Using the pentacle as a magickal framework, this exhilarating book presents techniques and exercises that help you manifest joy, discover your inner and outer beauty, recognize blessings, and bring balance to your life. Phoenix LeFae presents a revolutionary approach based on the pentacle and the five points of beauty, devotion, desire, creativity, and expression.
Walking in Beauty awakens you to the splendor of the world; it is both a meditation tool and a key to greater awareness. Through exercises, rituals, affirmations, and guerilla acts of kindness, this excellent guide shows you how to run the energy of the pentacle through your body and clear any blocks that keep you from living a fully engaged and beautiful life.

At first I was doubtful about asking for this book because, I thought, there are more important matters right now in the world. Who needs to be pretty when so much is going on? After watching Miss LeFae on LlewellynCon 2020 (jump to minute 9:30, connection tried trolling this a witch) I decided to give this one a chance. I liked her first book, so why not get the second one? And I’m SO glad I did it!

This proved to be a highly healing trip for me and I’m sure it will be for all readers as well. It’s surprising how easily we dismiss beauty as something unimportant and vain, but it surprised me how much I felt about everything I read. The more I knew, the more I wanted to know, an awesome vicious cycle that took me to the murkiest, swampiest part of my shadow and my self-esteem.

Phoenix has a clear, simple style and added bits and pieces of humor along the way. You can feel her honesty, her love for the work she has done and how much effort and dedication she has put into this charming, beautiful tool that is the Beauty Pentacle. I only think I missed how she finally decided what each of the points would represent as she worked with this and the practice evolved, but it’s just something I would have liked to have clear, not that it interferes with the content.

You will get a big, and I mean BIG arsenal of meditations, spell, rituals and journaling prompts for your journey to this book, enough material to develop your own practices as well when you get confident enough. I’m sure I’ll never underestimate beauty as a source of power and how healing it can be; by the way, if you practice any form of energy healing, make sure you get a copy of this baby! Walking in Beauty: Using the Magick of the Pentacle to Bring Harmony to Your Life will become one of your BFFs.

About Phoenix LeFae:
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Phoenix LeFae (Sebastopol, CA) is a professional reader, rootworker, teacher, and ritualist. She has been practicing witchcraft for twenty-five years, and her teachings are connected to the Reclaiming Tradition, Druidry, and Gardnerian Wicca. She is also the owner of an esoteric Goddess shop called Milk & Honey. Have you read this book? Would you recommend it or not? Let me know in the comments! Kinky regards, K!

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Friday, July 24, 2020

Book review: Pagan Portals - The Morrigan

Hi, everyone! How was your week, pornies? I finished reading an amazing book I wanted to get my hands on for a while, and man it was worth the wait! Celtic mythology is filled with appealing legends and myths, but I think few are just as interesting and present in the modern world as these Queens. I’m talking about Pagan Portals – The Morrigan: Meeting the Great Queens, by Morgan Daimler. Thanks to the publisher for the review copy!

  • Series: Pagan Portals
  • Print Length: 92 pages
  • Publisher: Moon Books (December 12, 2014)
  • Publication Date: December 12, 2014
  • ISBN-10: 1782798331
  • ISBN-13: 978-1782798330
  • Rating: 4/5 stars
On shadowed wings and in raven's call, meet the ancient Irish goddess of war, battle, prophecy, death, sovereignty, and magic. This book is an introduction to the Morrigan and several related goddesses who share the title, including Badb and Macha. It combines solid academic information with personal experience in a way that is intended to dispel the confusion that often surrounds who this goddess was and is. The Morrigan is as active in the world today as she ever was in the past but answering her call means answering the challenge of finding her history and myth in a sea of misinformation, supposition, and hard-to-find ancient texts. Here in one place, all of her basic information has been collected along with personal experiences and advice from a long-time priestess dedicated to a goddess who bears the title Morrigan.

This was an incredible first approach on The Morrigan and what She represent in the myths She is part of. No matter how complex and wide the subject is, Morgan Daimler knows how to explain it clearly, give her point of view but also let there be enough space for the reader to draw their own conclusions.

Although short, this book offers a big help in matters of theory for those interested in learning about The Morrigan. You discover who Morrigu, Macha and Badb, the main three sisters are, but also discover other legendary figures that at some point had the same title. I found Nemain specially interesting, and pretty close to the description of what the Morrigan is.

Being mostly a theoretical approach on the subject, there is not too much information on how to approach these Goddesses. However, you will find several prayers, incantations, invocations and calling for all of them, and the book itself gives you material to develop either your own, change those presented or create one from scratch, all of which both the author and I encourage you to if inclined to.

Pagan Portals – The Morrigan: Meeting the Great Queens is a must read for those who want to develop their sovereignty, their prophesy skills and survive every kind of war. The myths of the Morrigan gave me hope, strength and faith during these difficult time, they made me smile and look at a brighter future. Sometimes war is not about carnage and death, but about hard, challenging times, about surviving the tides of fear and uncertainty, just what we must do now. Morgan Daimler gives you the weapons in this book, but it is up to each one of us to choose and make a stand.

About Morgan Daimler:
Morgan Daimler is a witch who has been a polytheist since the early ’90′s. Following a path inspired by the Irish Fairy Faith blended with neopagan witchcraft, Morgan teaches classes on Irish myth and magical practices, fairies, and related subjects in the United States and internationally. Morgan has been published in multiple anthologies as well as in Witches and Pagans magazine, Pagan Dawn magazine and the CR journal Air n-Aithesc, and they are one of the world's foremost experts on all things Fairy. Besides the titles available through Moon Books Morgan has self-published a book of Old and Middle Irish language translations called The Treasure of the Tuatha De Danann, and an urban fantasy/paranormal romance series called Between the Worlds.

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Thursday, July 23, 2020

What kind of books do I read / review?

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Hi, pornies! I hope you’re having a great, safe week. ^^ I wanted to share some thoughts with you in case anyone’s wondering what I like to read. Despite I cannot afford buying books right now, I’m a total bookworm and comic lover, and like to support in any way I can when I see talent. This is mostly for authors and creators who’d like to send me a review copy, but readers can take this as a chance to get to know me better. To avoid assumptions about what I like the most, the lists are in alphabetical order, and of course I read a more topics and genres, but these are my main areas of interest. As a general rule, I try to avoid negative reviews, so if I give it at least 3 stars, I will publish the review.


NON-FICTION

Around 90% of the non-fiction books I read are about Witchcraft and Paganism, but I don’t miss the opportunity to know more about other spiritualties and religions. However, I take cultural appropriation VERY seriously: if your book’s about Native American spirituality, you better be either Native American yourself or have been properly trained and be able to prove this last one if so.

  • Death: I love to learn about death, the funerary customs and traditions around the world, myths about death-related figures and deities, and so on. I strongly believe a society is defined by the way it treats their dead and how they honor them. Plagues, the mortuary industry, cemeteries, and all the like are a straight-forward yes for me. Bonus if it includes necromancy in any way!
  • Psychic Development: If there’s a new divination method, a new take on a well-known one, its history, mediumship, or about psychic development in general, I’ll say yes. I’m always open to new ideas and approaches on the matter and that enhance and build a solid practice. A real Witch doesn’t depend on tools and ingredients, and book that reflect this are a must-have for me.
  • Faery: I’m totally in love with all things faery and devour books about them in the blink of an eye! I love to know more about the Fair Folk, work with them, connect with them and discover their world. Their myths and legends have taught me a lot, not only as a Witch but also as a human being. As a bonus, I also love traditional fairy tales and folklore studies that go deeper.
  • Healing: This is a big part of what I do as a Witch, something I’m constantly searching for and learning about. I’m not the most versed in Green Witchcraft, a topic I just recently got started with, but if it’s a book about reiki, energy healing, gemstones, the chakras, animal spirits, or anything similar, me wants. However, I’m not that much into personal experiences and anecdotes on their own.
  • LGBT+/Sexuality: Although there has been a big progress regarding LGBT+ issues, I always try to keep myself informed on its study because there’s still too much work to do. Same goes for sexuality, its history, analysis, the right use of pronouns, studies about identity, and so on. Big bonus points if it’s masculine-related, because we need to shatter every single mindless toxic masculine stereotype.

FICTION

I’m always open to erotic books and kinky poetry, but sex on its own is… quite boring. I like books and comics that have room for more than just sex. Just one thing: I have nothing against graphic content, but if you’re trying to make rape look good, sexy, funny, romantic, positive, or anything else than the degenerative, traumatic thing it is… Nope, kindly stay the fuck away from me.

  • Drama: I love, LOVE a good dose of drama. I’ve stayed awake whole nights just to know what happens next. The mystery, the thrill of wondering and the enigmas are good, but synopsis that present complex relationships, age gaps, mental traumas, conflictive past and a love that has all the odds against it get my attention right away. I want stories to make me laugh, fear, cry and more
  • Fantasy: This is perhaps one of my all-time favorites. I always have time to get out of this world or discover magical, mythical, legendary creatures on it. Medieval Europe and Arthuriana are okay, but stories that go beyond this, like underwater adventures, trips to the underworld, Eastern or Asian inspired worlds, catch my attention faster. It’s all about creativity and world-building, in the end. 
  • Horror: This genres has gotten so much hate over the ages, but it shows humanity’s deepest, darkest fears and thoughts. I’m a fan of slasher and cult movies, and Gothic fiction, ghost stories, monsters and gore have a special place in my heart. I want it to be shocking, terrifying, and taken straight from the pits of hell. Blood and guts are only great if you tell me why the bad guy is so damaged.
  • Retellings: With a never ending love for all things folklore, faery, legends, myths and fables, if you wrote something inspired by a known (or, even better, a not so known) tale, let me know as soon as possible! I never have enough of these type of stories. For me, they are the best a writer can challenge themselves and the reader and show how creative and imaginative they can be.
  • Romance: Who doesn’t like a good dose of love? Contemporary, dramatic, fantasy, erotic, paranormal, (maybe not too much) SciFi, MalePreg, comedy, polyamorous, you name it, but if it has sexy guys falling in love with each other, and character and relationship development, I’m in. I like happy, bittersweet and even sad, tragic endings. Just stay TF away from insta-love.

Soooo, for the readers, what about you? What do you like to read? What do you think about these genres? ^^ Let me know in the comments!

Kinky regards, K!

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Wednesday, July 22, 2020

Book review: Broth from the Cauldron

Hi, pornies! I hope you had a wonderful weeked! Mine could have been better, honestly, although some of you already know one of the reasons why it was good for me. ^^ Keep it secret, please. Another reason that I can make public is that I was reading a lot, and I mean A LOT. I got a book that makes you think about death, dying, past lives and even suicide that I really really liked. Today I'm talking about Broth from the Cauldron: A Wisdom Journey through Everyday Magic, by Cerridwen Fallingstar. Thanks to the publisher for sending me a review copy!

  • Print Length: 280 pages
  • Publisher: She Writes Press (May 12, 2020)
  • Publishing Date: May 12, 2020
  • ISBN-10: 1631526995
  • ISBN-13: 978-1631526992
  • Rating: 4/5 stars
Broth from the Cauldron is a collection of “teaching stories,” a literary Wiccan soup for the soul. It is a distillation of the wisdom Cerridwen Fallingstar has gathered from her journey through life, and from her forty years as a Shamanic teacher and Wiccan Priestess. At turns poignant and humorous, it chronicles her trajectory from a Republican cold war upbringing to Pagan Priestess, offering a portrait of a culture growing from denial to awareness. Accessible to any audience interested in personal growth, Broth from the Cauldron is for anyone who’s ever stood at the crossroads wishing a faery godmother would come along and show them the path.

I will start by saying that you will want to take it easy with this one. There are MANY stories in this book, all of which with valuable lessons and morals, messages you will want to dwell with for a while, and then move the next ones. Although it’s not a topic or something said in the book, maybe writing down your feelings and thoughts on some of them would be a good plus for some of you. 

This collection of tales and memories of the author puts you in the shoes of a powerful Wiccan witch that knows what she’s talking about, or writing, in any case. I felt I was having a chat with Cerridwen Fallingstar every time I got started with a new chapter, a new story from her life, and I cannot help but feel so warm towards her. This is not just someone telling stories, this is a witch opening her very soul for all to see! 

There are several accounts on how death, loss, grief, and near-death experiences marked her and her path, how she learned from them, and you also get to feel what it would be like to be in this position. Although some of the stories felt way too fantastical for me, mostly those from the author’s childhood, there are others I really resonated with. There’s a bit of everything for everyone.

With a direct style and simple yet powerful voice, Cerridwen Fallingstar gives you a window into the real life of a real witch, in case you may wonder what it was like to grow up knowing, feeling, seeing things other kids didn’t. Broth from the Cauldron: A Wisdom Journey through Everyday Magic amazed me with every page!

About Cerridwen Fallingstar:
Cerridwen Fallingstar is a shamanic Witch who has taught classes in magic and ritual for over thirty years. She gives lectures tying together psychology, spirituality, history, contemporary issues, and politics in an entertaining, enlightening, and humorous format. She is the author of three historical novels based on her past lives: The Heart of the Fire, White as Bone, Red as Blood: The Fox Sorceress, and White as Bone, Red as Blood: The Storm God. She lives in Marin County, California.

Have you read this book? Would you recommend it or not? Let me know in the comments! Kinky regards, K!

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